God loves

Love puts a spring in your step, a smile on your face and joy in your heart. What happiness to love and to be loved! That’s because we were made for love. But therefore how sad is the experience of those who are not loved, or whose love relationship has ended in acrimony… There is deep pain in feeling unloved – because we were made for love, not for disputes and hatred.

The good news is that God loves you. This is no mere religious fantasy, not just a heart-warming ideal that we are pleased to entertain: if that is all it is, we would be indulging in a religious illusion. Humans cannot invent a God of love. The real issue is not what we desire, but what God is objectively like. The Judeo-Christian God alone, in all the religions of the world, presents himself to us as a God who loves us dearly. Jesus, God incarnate, told us not only that God is there and that he is our Creator: he brought the astonishing revelation that God loves us. 

But what is love? Impossible fully to define, we may consider it as delight in the other, as emotional attachment, deep friendship, harmony and mutual understanding, caring and helping… On the human level, love is seen in seeking the good of the other, and acting on that love, even at extreme personal cost. All this – and more – applies to God’s love for his creatures: he seeks our highest good; he wants to be our friend and he desires that we come to know his love and enter into a warm loving relationship with him.

The one who loves longs for the other to respond in love; and so it is with God. That’s why Jesus insisted that the first commandment – which is God’s foremost desire for us his beloved creatures – is to “love the Lord you God with all you heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength” (Mark 12.30). Such total love cannot just be demanded, however; it must be won. And God has taken steps to demonstrate his immense love for you in such a way as to win your total love in return. In other words, God loves you with a love so strong, faithful, immense and kind, that he considers your response to loving him with all you have as the only fitting response.

One of Jesus’ apostles wrote, “We love him, because he first loved us” (1 John 4.19). God takes the initiative in love. He “proved his love toward us” says the apostle Paul (Romans 5.8). Why does no other religion teach that God is love? Because they cannot show any proof of God having shown great love. In Christianity this is unique: “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life” (John 3.16). “This is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins” (1 John 4.10). Christians therefore see in Jesus’ self-giving sacrifice the supreme demonstration of God’s love for them. 

This needs to be developed in order to be understood; the one who has not grasped this yet has a glorious enlightenment in store!

Clive Every-Clayton