A great thinker of the 20th century, Francis A. Schaeffer, summed up man’s situation thus: “The dilemma of modern man is simple: he simply doesn’t know why man has any meaning. He is lost. Man remains a zero. It is the damnation of our generation. If a man cannot find any meaning for himself, that is his problem”.
The difficulty was compounded by Jean-Paul Sartre’s insistence that we have to create our own meaning, which contributed to confusion in the search for self-understanding and later to the supposed possibility of inventing one’s identity. The problem with that is we are simply not able to invent ourselves; rather, from the very moment of our birth, we exist as “given”; the wisdom of the serenity prayer counsels that while we should change what ought to be changed, we must accept what cannot be changed.
We first have to reckon that we come from somewhere; we have a back story. We cannot abolish the past – our past. We are caught in existence at this moment in history.
If we want to re-invent ourselves, we find we drag our past with us and we can never be dissociated from it. Rather, as we seek to understand ourselves properly, we need light to guide us, truth to correct us where we’ve gone wrong. “Know thyself” is not a banal piece of advice: it is of the essence of our happiness and our survival. But that means we have to assess ourselves as we are, as objectively as we can (which is not easy when we are the subject). We have to assess judiciously how other people consider us: we all know how their opinions can do much harm in damaging our self-esteem, and how sometimes their praise does us much good, boosting our morale. In fact, unknown to our own hearts, what we really need is for someone who knows us truly and who loves us dearly, who can tell us who we are, why we are here and what the meaning is to our existence. That person exists! We must listen to him!
(continued in next blog)
Clive Every-Clayton